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When we lose or feel rejection it hurt us from a very deep place. At these tender moments, one can feel a sense of loss of their own power. These affirmations can help us regain our confidence so we can move on with grace.


Rejection increases anger, anxiety, depression, jealousy, and sadness. It reduces performance on difficult intellectual tasks, and can also contribute to aggression and poor impulse control. When we experience undesirable outcomes we sometimes don't know how to cope with these raw feelings.

The idea to icoprarte positive affirmations to the brand was when Ramsli experienced a very intense rejection. In fashion schools, there is a senior collection that showcases what the school and judges think are the best looks out of the whole senior collection. 

Long story short Ramsli did not make it into the fashion show and this rjectirejectionon was extremely painful for her to experience. She felt that there was not enough support for herself and other seniors going through this experience as well from the school so she knew seeded to make something to lessen the blow. The negative thought that arose in her head was too much to handle so she started writing down the thoughts and then finding a positive spin for each one. By doing this she was rewriting her normal negative leaning, and self-destructive pathways in the brain. Because these were recorded in real-time they are very applicable to anyone who is experiencing loss or rejection.

Please feel free to copy or screenshot so you can remind yourself regularly of these affirmations.

Recordings soon!

  • The outcome of this competition does not decide my worth

  • You can only lose something you have, but you cannot lose something that you are.

  • My work is still important even though the outcome was not desirable.

  • I am unique and no one sees the world the same as me.

  • I am creative.

  • I am worthy of good things.

  • I am allowed to feel how I feel.

  • I am allowed to grieve this loss.

  • It is okay to feel sad about the outcome it doesn’t mean you are a sore loser.

  • I accept the outcome with grace.

  • Even though I didn’t get what I want doesn’t mean I never will.

  • Failure does not come from losing, but from not trying

  • I only lose if you give up.

  • Good things are coming to me.

  • I do not compare myself to others.

  • Just because other people got the award I wanted doesn’t mean I am any less.

  • I recognize my strengths.

  • I am allowed to take time to process this.

  • It is okay to not feel okay.

  • I am still worthy even though I fell short of my perceived goal.

  • I treat my mind as my best friend.

  • I do not compare my work to others.

  • I am still worthy even if I lose.

  • I will create my desires because I truly deserve them.

  • I am successful.

  • No one sees the world like me.

  • I am experiencing this loss with grace.

  • I am valuable.

  • I know this is not personal, the viewpoints of the judges are subjective.

  • I can move past this.

  • It is a blessing I am alive to experience emotions such as undesirable outcomes.

  • I accept the outcome with peace.

  • I treat myself kindly.

  • I am so grateful for my mind.

  • I am not less than the competition winners.

  • I am a desirable person

  • This was not all for nothing.

  • Winners do not try harder than you they just won. It is that simple.

  • Someday I will win an award.

  • It hurts now but it won’t always feel this way.

  • I am perfect exactly as I am.

  • I am growing and becoming.

  • I am enough.

  • I am right where I’m supposed to be.

  • I have all that I need within me now.

  • I am here for a purpose.

  • I love myself.

  • I am here.

  • I can take up space.

  • I trust myself.

  • I am on my own unique path.

  • I trust my process.

  • I give myself permission to be ok where I am. I know that I am doing my best

We wish you nothing but the best on your journey towards healing!


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